Monday, August 25, 2008

Back to School, Orphanage Visit

We have been very busy, attempting to settle into a routine with Jeferson and Diego.

Diego started back to school on Monday, so around 11:30 AM, Cecilia picked us up to take us to AYUDAME, so that Diego could pick up his school uniform, and backpack, that he had used previously. We had a babysitter for Jeferson, as he is not going to go back to school, and will be spending future afternoons with Mami. However, both of us wanted to go with Diego, to see the school, and also visit the orphanage. Here is a pic of the outside of the school. It is a very new building.



THE PROUD ONE HIMSELF


Five of us walked Diego to school. (Papi, Mami, Cecilia, and 2 of the psychologists from Ayudame). Diego must have felt like an absolute Prince with all of the escorts! He was very excited to be back in school. His teacher Professor Lolita, was so happy to see him, as he was to see her. She met his class in the playground, and they all walked back together to the classroom. Once in the classroom, we watched the children get settled in. We were very surprised when they started the class with a prayer. This is a public school, and they pray at the start of every class. This would be unheard of in the United States. Good for the country of Colombia! Professor Lolita is an excellent teacher, you can just feel the love and respect that the children have for her, and she for them. After the children settled into their assignment, she explained to us what Diego's strengths are, as well as things he needs to work on a little, and what he needs to work on alot. She expressed that he has never had anyone to help him with his homework, and needs alot of guidance. After only 2 days of being back to school, since he has been with us, she has noticed a marked improvement in his attitude and overall happiness. Upon hearing this from Professor Lolita, Papi was so proud of Diego, that it brought a tear to Papi's eye. With as difficult as some of the days have been, this makes us realize that we are doing good for the boys. Diego is also very proud to be able to have a family who will take him to school, and pick him up from school. His face just beams with happiness! Since Papi is the one to take Diego to school and pick him up, Diego introduces him to everybody, even the security guard, three days in a row now!!

ENTRANCE TO CLASS ROOM WITH PROFESSOR LOLITA


CLASS ROOM

WHO IS THAT "TEACHING"


THE PRINCE HIMSELF



Papi and Diego leave the hotel about noon every day, and take a taxi to his school. Then papi goes to an internet cafe and works for the afternoon. Around 5 PM, Papi picks up Diego at school, and then they taxi back to the hotel. Meanwhile, Mami and Jeferson spend the afternoon together. Today, right after Diego left for school , Jeferson packed up his backpack with sunglasses, a bottle top, and spiderman, and asked for his "jacqueta" (jacket) as he was going to school as well. So on the way downstairs, he told everyone that he was going to school.

Mami decided to take Jeferson out for a short walk, to pretend he was off to school too. We ended up at a local artesian shop. He forgot all about school.

We feel that we are on track with a routine for the boys, and their behavior is beginning to reflect this. We have hope for 2 well behaved boys!

Back to Monday- Papi and Mami visited the orphanage where Jeferson and Diego lived since December. We met this visit with a certain anxiety, as we did not know what to expect. We were pleasantly surprised at the care that the children received. The children all looked happy, as we had already noticed the happiness with Diego and Jeferson. There were many children, and we wanted to take them all home. The staff at the orphanage was very willing to allow us to look around at everything, and it was obvious that they took much pride in the orphanage and their work. We took many pictures while we were there. We saw the room and bed that Diego slept in, and also the room where Jeferson slept. We were surprised to learn that he had been sleeping in a crib. The boys each slept in separate room, and we think that they were in with children of their own ages.





After the visit to the orphanage, we spent the afternoon, walking the streets of the "real " Bogota, and visited a few of the shops. We met a shop owner, who actually has a factory in the same building, where they assemble stuffed animals. He was very happy to give us a tour. We purchased a few items from him. In fact, we found the shopowner so friendly, that the next day after Eric dropped Diego off at school, he met the shop owner for lunch, so they could practice each others language.






We visited 2 markets, one was a typical American grocery store, and the other one was more of what we would think of as a farmers market. We purchased a dozen of roses for 5000 pesos ($2.50 US dollars). At this price we wanted to purchase every rose they had. We did purchase 3 dozen. One dozen for Professor Lolita, one dozen for the staff at the orphanage, and of course one dozen for mami! ( Happy anniversary flowers) It was coincidental, but along with the dozen of roses for mami, the shop owner gave us 3 free roses. (12 + 3 =15 roses) for 15 years of marriage!
Outside the grocery store, there was a man shining shoes. Eric was finally able to get his shoes shined. He gave the man 3000 pesos, and he returned 1000 pesos to Eric, as the price was only 2000 pesos, ($1.00). We also found that fruit is very inexpensive here. The cost for a whole pineapple here is 1000 pesos (50 cents). There is also not the variety of things that we have in the US. Only about 10 feet of an aisle is devoted to cereal with maybe 20 varieties. That is only about 1/5 of the variety of cereal that we find in the US. Although it seems like these items are very inexpensive, we did find that clothing is much more expensive than in the US.

Thanks for being patient as we settle into yet another new routine. Please keep the comments coming as we live by them!

Chow!

Eric, Joyce, Diego and Jeferson

8 comments:

Doug said...

Hello Eric, Joyce, Diego and Jeferson,
Wow, what an adventure. We are so glad all is going well. Really enjoy reading your blog; thanks for sharing. I'm wondering if Eric will dress up as Santa, like he did for Ashley about 14 years ago? I think he should; was great.
All is well here; Cubs are still in first place and it's almost September. Your Brewers are still looking good for the wild card.
Will continue to pray for safe travels and a happy homecoming. Take care,
Doug, Joni, Ashley and Adam

Anonymous said...

Don't you LOVE Colombia?! The kindness of strangers, the new experiences (you need to experience a haircut at "Machos" I believe it is called, it is on the same street as Maku) My husband (who has very little hair :)SHH!) had magazines held for him while his hair was being cut, a Coca Cola Lite, and lots of information from the gentleman cutting his hair on where all the beautiful Colombian women live :) All for a very inexpensive amount! But the experience was worth so much more! Have you found Jacques bakery? I know that is a favorite, just down the street from the Z and if you find the pine tree across the street from the shop, it is a gardening place with a parrot living in that tree! Keep your eyes open! I am so proud of you all and your boys :) I can only imagine how proud you are of your boys! Jodi

The Jaenischs said...

Hi Guys! I just love your updates! All your details make me feel like I am right back in Bogota! The people are so wonderful, aren't they? Many Americans could take a lesson from them on pride for their country, how they value children, families and teachers and their genuine appreciation for the very little that so many of them have! It's a wonderful culture!!! By the time you leave there, you will feel like you are leaving half of your heart in the beautiful country that has given you your most precious gifts!
Okay, enough sappiness...I have myself in tears now! :0)
It's great to hear that things are going so well! Isn't it amazing how kids really need that structure...and so many adults as well? You guys are so great! I LOVE the picture of Eric writing on the board at school! All 4 of you are lucky to have each other!
As long as Jodi Mongoven is offering pampering suggestions for Eric, I want to throw out there that many hotels will arrange for a salon to come to the hotel to do pedicures and manicures for the women! Go Joyce! It was so inexpensive and such a nice way to relax for a morning or afternoon with the ladies at the hotel! Also, I have not heard that you have been to Crepes and Waffles! What are you waiting for?!?!? It is top notch food and YUMMY ice cream! Our daughter, Lauren, would recommend the "Gummy" sundae on the ice cream menu for your boys!
Keep the great updates and photos coming...we love them!!!
Brian, Mary, Lauren & Ben Jaenisch

Glenda said...

Hello
Enjoyed your entry once again but can't tell you how much I enjoy the pictures. You describe things so well and then I look at the pictures and feel like I'm there with you. You're becoming awesome parents you have already learned the importance of schedules and routines. They just make life so much easier for everyone because everyone knows what to expect. Hope you don't mind if I show the pictures of the school to my collegues at work. They would like to see a Columbian school. The Packers are playing tonight right now the score is 16-7 Tennessee is ahead. Have a great weekend. I'll be checking for an entry on Tuesday. We are heading out for our last big camping weekend. Give the boys a hug from us.
Glenda

PK said...

Buenos dias! Glad to hear things seems to be settling down a bit for you all. Our family motto was "mas cafe por favor" Can't get enough caffiene as a new parent:)

Thanks for sharing your blog. Your entries make me homesick. It feels like I'm back in Colombia. Sigh...

I especially loved the entry about school. Diego introducing Papi to everyone, including the security guard was "muy precioso".

Chaio
Familia de Kern

Anonymous said...

Let me start off by wishing both of you a Happy Anniversary. 15 roses :) Nice~

I am glad to hear that things are starting to fall into place with the boys in regard to routine and behavior, etc.

I enjoy reading your blogs so much and am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers that your trip continues to be a successful and happy one with a safe return with your precious "cargo" :)

Enjoy!

Renee Patchel

Anonymous said...

Hello!
How much fun to read about and see so many wonderful pictures of Colombia! Our little guys loved seeing your pictures of Ayudame, where they got to spend the first months of their lives. It is so neat to see the pictures of the school as well, and to read your journals. Diego and Jeferson will cherish these their entire life! We also kept a hand written journal while we were there, which is so much fun to look back on, see how we were feeling, etc.
It sounds like you are doing great! So much to see, do and take in! And the boys (and you!)look so happy and content. Enjoy every minute!!
Have a good weekend. Hope you get a chance to find the markets. :)

Patsy, Jon, Will and Jake

Anonymous said...

Hello to all of you!
It is lonely on Cedar Run Drive without you! What a pleasure to be able to keep in touch in such a personal way~we feel like we are living this dream w/you.
The boys send their love. Niko, especially, can't wait for Eric to "get home!" He will be surprised when he has to share your attention now!
My family is coming down tomorrow night. They are all going to Great America on Sunday and the Brewers game on Monday...I will be hanging out w/mom while my sister enjoys herself w/the boys.
Take care of yourself and those beautiful boys! Can't wait to meet them.
Hugs,
Diana